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Love Them and Still Say No: The Family Money Boundaries Playbook

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Love Them and Still Say No: The Family Money Boundaries Playbook

The family money boundaries playbook from Across the Table with Allison Hong Merrill: map the money rules you inherited, set a giving budget that includes money sent home, a decision tree for every request, worked examples and kind scripts for yes, less, later and no.

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Esther Jackson-Stowell

Esther Jackson-Stowell, licensed real estate broker and host of The Broker’s Table. Everything here comes from what her family actually did.

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What is inside.

  1. Map the money rules you inherited, and decide which to keep and which to rewrite.

  2. Your household cash flow and priorities, including seasonal costs like travel home, weddings and funerals.

  3. One giving budget for tithing, charity, family support and money sent home abroad.

  4. A decision tree for every request

    basic need, margin, pattern, and whether you both agree.

  5. Worked examples

    supporting a parent abroad and a sibling’s repeated requests.

  6. Scripts for yes, less, later and no, plus what to say when guilt or pressure comes back.

  7. A 20-minute household money meeting, teaching children generosity with limits, and a four-week tracker.

Who it is for

Made for the woman who is ready to start.

“Where faith, family, and legacy meet.”

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  • You want a clear, doable plan, not another article.
  • You want faith and stewardship in the same breath as strategy.
  • You want to finish with something written down.

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After successful payment, download links appear with your order and are included in your receipt. You can also find them in your account’s Downloads area.
What format is it?
Check the format and included files above. Printable PDFs can be read on screen or printed; only files explicitly labeled fillable support form entry.
Is this financial advice?
No. It is educational and faith-rooted. It gives you clear steps and worksheets. Confirm your specific situation with a qualified professional.
Can I share it with my family?
Yes. It is licensed for your household. Print as many copies as your table needs.

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